It’s So Embarrassing
As a really shy person, dating has always been really difficult for me. Having dinner with a near stranger and trying to make small talk is brutally difficult and uncomfortable. Finding sex partners was even more difficult because talking about sex is even more difficult than plain old small talk. When talking about sex to people I barely know, I turn beet red from head to toes and start to shake, stutter and sweat. It’s silly really – I’m an attractive woman and guys are always hitting on me. My shyness is just so debilitating that I totally freeze up. A lot of guys thought I was stuck up because I’m pretty and wouldn’t talk to them, but nothing could be further from the truth.
Online dating made a huge difference for me, because I was able to talk to people online and get to know them a little without being face-to-face. I’m fine by e-mail and even instant messenger. By the time we would meet in person, I would be feeling pretty comfortable with the person and able to not make a nervous, freaked out spectacle of myself. It was still difficult talking about sex though.
Sexsearch.com has been a godsend really. I never realized how much a free sex site would change my life. Now I’m able to get to know people online as potential sex partners. Talking about sex with a stranger online by instant messenger is so much easier and less embarrassing than it is in person! Now I can do all the negotiating about desires, likes and dislikes, fantasies and everything else online without getting all nervous and jerky. I’ve already met a couple of guys after talking about everything online. The date was pretty comfortable because I felt like I knew them already. I’ve already had a really nice sex encounter with one of them, and will be meeting the other for sex very soon. Sex websites are the best thing that could happen for a very shy girl.
