Don’t Know Don’t Care
The thing I find with definitions is that they are so…defining. Once you allow one label or one specific world-view, once you agree that something has an objective truth or that things can only be one way because there is a generally accepted definition of a thing, that’s when you can run into trouble.
I always wanted to be one of those guys that was sex dating but I have heard so many conflicting definitions of the term I never really knew what I was doing or if I wanted to do it at all.
I now know though that on my site sexsearch it doesn’t much matter what your definition is for whatever it is you’re doing with another person just as long as you and your lover figure it out, come to terms and have no problems getting together with your separate definitions.
For my purposes, and for just right now, sex dating means I get to come on sexsearch, look around for whatever woman I want and if she likes me and we can get along a bit across chat and emails, we maybe meet off line. From there if we have sex or not, that’s totally up to us and if we will have sex again that is also up to us. My particular definition of sex dating, and this could change any day, is that for right now I do not have any specific monogamous commitment to anyone nor they to me.
This is sex dating for me right now. Whether it will change, whether I will stop it all together, whether somebody will suddenly come into my life and show me how to do it better I do not know, All I do know is that I am sex dating and sex dating pretty damn successfully on sexsearch so this is where I’ll stay sex dating for as long as I want to, for as long as I define myself wanting to.
